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Everyone with the diagnosis experiences their difficulties very differently. Not everyone with a diagnosis has every symptom of Asperger syndrome.
Making small talk and general conversation
Taking things literally
Getting anxious talking to new people
Being pedantic about the language they and others use
Some people may have:
Difficulties with imagination (i.e. they can’t imagine things without having had direct experience of them)
Generally prefer fact to fiction
Some people may have problems with:
Making eye contact
Interpreting other people’s body language (and feeling confident about their own)
Making small talk and chatting
Starting new relationships and keeping them going
Empathy (i.e. finding it hard to understand other peoples thoughts, feelings, and opinions)
Sharing (feelings and possessions)
Showing emotions
A strong preference for routine and/or rituals
Finding the idea of change disturbing
Tendency to be preoccupied with particular topics (e.g. timetables, data, or historical records). These topics may fill much of people’s leisure time and general conversation
There is no cure for Asperger syndrome
Medication (and psychological therapies) can be used to try and help with anxiety or depression
Eating a healthy balanced diet and taking regular exercise helps maximise people’s physical and mental health
Keep your communication clear and to the point
Avoid metaphors
Think about the language you use (people tend to interpret things literally)
Think about how you use humour
Cognitive behavioural therapy can help some people who lack confidence or feel depressed
Supportive counselling and practical problem solving therapies can help some people too
Work (employment) can help some people as it can provide routine and structure
Some people like feedback if they are doing something unusual
Being supported and being believed about their diagnosis
Being in control of who knows about the diagnosis
Other people being patient and giving them time to think about and respond to questions
Other people sticking to plans or arrangements they have made
Remembering that people with Asperger’s tend to be perfectionists
Being told about changes in their routine; make changes in stages; and make sure people know what the end result will be
Always asking the person how best you can help them
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Written in 2007
This factsheet is reproduced with kind permission of Shropshire Primary Care Trust
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